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Supercard Archives / Re: DIAMOND STEELE v KALLIE REZNIK v ANDREA HERNANDEZ
« Last post by Julianna DiMaria on August 02, 2024, 09:57:09 PM »July 27, 2024
“If anyone outside of your family knows what it was like when it came to you and your brother, it’s me…”
Chelsea LeClair says this with a sigh as we’re in my mother’s living room following the promo that I did against my two opponents.
“I saw him bully you and treat you like total crap and I don’t blame you a bit for feeling how you feel.”
“I appreciate your support, Chelsea…” I said with a sigh. “I just don’t know what Eddie was thinking trying to blindside me by getting us in the same room like that. How can he betray me like that?”
“He wasn’t betraying you, Andrea….” Chelsea said with a sigh of her own. “He was just trying to help you get past everything. I know Roddy was never someone that I would want to be around because he was gross and disgusting and I remember he made some… ‘advancements’ toward me before he got arrested and all… but sometimes prison changes people. I’m not taking his side, but it’s not good for you to be holding onto this pain much longer…”
I took a bit of a deep breath as I thought about what Chelsea was saying. A part of me knew she was right, but as I reflected on so much of what he put me through growing up, all I can focus on is how happy I was when he was sentenced to prison, how ecstatic I was that he was staying in there as long as he was in there, and how upset I was when he got released early for good behavior.
“But to forgive him for all of that? When he openly called me an accident? When he didn’t even want me to be born? When he had a hand in ruining every birthday that I can remember up until the age of 14 and how it only stopped because he ended up going to jail?”
“Andrea, please have a more open mind about this. I’m not saying you have to have any sort of personal connection with him in any way. Forgiving him doesn’t mean that such a relationship is going to happen. But, you truly deserve better than this. Don’t you think that if you were able to move past all the pain, then what wound up happening with your first run in Sin City Wrestling wouldn’t have happened at all?”
At this point, I was less angry and flustered and more confused than anything.
“How does Roddy and the way he treated me when we were children have anything to do with my first run in SCW?”
“Think about the things he was saying about you and how he was treating you when you messed up with something or made a mistake. Remember when you lost your mother’s debit card when she was getting you a dress for Homecoming that year and he made fun of you and called you a dunce and the ‘stupidest person ever’?”
“A gross exaggeration if there ever was one…”
“And how many times in the early part of your SCW career did you have to deal with Kate Steele and Evie Jordan making gross exaggerations if not outright lies about everything going on with you at the time for better or worse?”
“Touche…”
“Think about how he was always rooting against you to ever amount to anything from a talent competition in 8th grade to wanting to be a wrestler at all. How is it any different than those times during that hurtful part of your SCW career where you had other Bombshells rooting against you when you didn’t do a damn thing to them aside from beating them in the ring? How is it any different from some of those women celebrating your failures all those summers ago? It affected you the exact same way that it affected you whenever your brother would celebrate your misery ranging from falling off your bike to getting grounded by your parents for scoring a “D” on a quiz. It’s not any different, Andrea…”
Something really lit up inside of me when I was really beginning to compare how Roddy treated me growing up to how idiots and horrible women like Diamond Steele and Evie Jordan were treating me in the early part of my first run in Sin City Wrestling. This was of course, without mentioning how the likes of Krystal Wolfe and Roxi Johnson took cowardly cheap shots at me while I was gone and took no accountability or responsibility for their bullshit. My brain was flashing back to the misery I was feeling and in my heart, that pain was just beating through me. I never wanted my first run in SCW to go down the way it did, but I realized that my regrets were starting to fade a bit when an epiphany entered my brain.
“...that’s why I collapsed so badly the first time I was in SCW…”
Chelsea widens her eyes, not quite understanding what I meant at that point.
“I was triggered, Chelsea. I allowed those bitches I dealt with at the time to trigger me. I handled it all horribly because I never got a true resolution with Roddy. The way he bullied and tormented me isn’t that much different then the way I was treated around the time I was the SCW Bombshells World Champion. The only reason why that bullying stopped was because he went to prison and I never overcame all that trauma directly. So… when I was dealing with similar crap from the likes of Evie and Kate…”
I sighed, expressing some regret and seeing the bigger picture of why I fell as hard as I did.
“I had no way to cope with it or face it because I never did with Roddy. All I did was just cower in a corner and cry with him because I felt powerless… just like I felt powerless when everything around me in Sin City Wrestling was collapsing. When I became what I became… it wasn’t because I wanted to be that person, it was because I felt like I had no other way out. When you had the likes of Keira Fisher celebrate my downfall after a battle royal at one point… I just didn’t know what else to do…
Tears of regret were flowing down my face.
“How the hell could I, when I never learned how to overcome the abuse I endured from my own brother?”
Chelsea gives me a huge embrace and wipes the tears away doing everything that she can to help me push through this.
“That’s why forgiving him is the best thing for you to do, Andrea. I know it’s hard and I know it feels like you are excusing his abuse toward you, but trust me, that’s the last thing that you’re doing. You deserve better than to experience this pain on a repeated basis. You deserve to have peace and you deserve to have a better time in Sin City Wrestling than the first time around. I worry that if you can’t move past the pain from Roddy that you’re going to eventually fall back into what you were before and nobody wants that and you, especially, don’t want that.”
“I completely agree on all of that, Chelsea. But I don’t know if I’m ready…”
“Girl, look at how you’ve improved and been a hell of a wrestler and an even better champion in between your SCW stints and tell me again that you’re not ready to let it go and move forward…”
Putting it that way, I could definitely smile knowing that she was right and that despite everything I’ve ever been through, I’ve somehow been able to be better and stronger as a wrestler and a person with time.
“There’s no way I am going to deny that truth…” I admitted with a sigh of relief. “You’re right. I’ll… find a way to get ahold of him and…”
Just the thought of contacting Roddy made me cringe a bit but I knew it had to be done.
“...we’ll go from there…”
I took a deep breath as I pulled out my phone and texted Eddie asking if he had Roddy’s number knowing more than likely that would be the case. There was silence for a bit before my phone went off and I saw that Eddie responded back to me with his number. My nerves got jumpy knowing I was a phone call away from finally putting a painful past behind me for good.
August 1, 2024
On this night, I was on the deck of the cruise. I was thankfully alone as that’s exactly what I wanted to be when what I was about to do were to take place. I dialed Roddy’s number, closed my eyes, said a bit of a prayer in my mind hoping that this didn’t blow up in my face, and I pressed “SEND” to officially make the call. I waited and heard a few dial tones before I heard his voice.
“Yeah? Who is this?”
“...hey….” I said nervously. I heard silence on the other end and those few, tense moments were really getting to me.
“Andrea?” he asked, sounding a bit surprised.
“Yeah… it’s me… I asked Eddie for your number.”
“I see… so… what’s happening here?”
“You hated me when we were growing up and on the few times I even bothered visiting you in prison to tell you how wrong you were about me, you continued to root for my failure and you continued to insist that if you were never arrested, you’d be having my success and not me. You’ve always been a horrible brother up to the last prison visit which was early 2018. But now, you’re out of prison and you want to make things right with me? Why should I believe that? Tell me, WHY?!?!??!”
I could hear Roddy sighing on the other end.
“People change…”
“And suddenly because you’re out of prison, you’ve changed?”
“You remember when I got my former girlfriend pregnant right? Just before I got arrested?”
“Yeah…”
“Between your last prison visit and my release, I met that child… my daughter. As it turns out, she almost didn’t make it when she was born… epilepsy. She had some developmental struggles as her mother detailed to me and when I met her and had a conversation with her for the first time, it was like… none of it happened. She overcame that. She leads a normal life. She’s just like any other teenage girl…someone that has a bright future ahead of her. I was a sexist douchebag when we were growing up and I thought women had a ‘certain role’. But seeing how strong my own daughter is… it changed me, Andrea. I realized how wrong I was about women… how wrong I was about you…”
I was a bit surprised hearing this from him, considering the years of abuse including “women belong in the kitchen” from him.
“...but I heard about, and when I got a chance, saw how you fell apart after Dad passed away and what you became in Sin City Wrestling when you were there the time before…”
My eyes widened a bit, definitely intrigued.
“You know what I felt when I saw you turn into that?”
“Happy…” I said with a scoff. “...you were overjoyed to see me suffer. You always were.”
“Andrea, that’s where you’re wrong… and if you don’t believe me, Eddie and Mom can vouch for this. I wasn’t happy to see you like that. In fact, I felt guilty… guilty to the point of tears, Andrea… because deep down in my gut, I couldn’t help but feel like that was my fault… that I was the reason why you became what you became. I broke you down so badly that when Dad died and you were dealing with the same treatment from a couple of your peers in SCW that I gave you when we were growing up, you collapsed… and I feel horrible about it to this day. From the bottom of my heart, I am truly sorry for all of the pain that I caused you and for everything I’ve done to you. ‘Young and stupid’ is nowhere near an excuse and I’m going to be a man and own up to that. I was extremely, incredibly wrong about you and you have had a much better wrestling career than I would’ve. I was wrong in ever telling you that you only ever were successful because I was incarcerated. Knowing you, you still would’ve found your way into the business even if Dad refused to train you.”
The tears were filling up my eyes again as I didn’t know what to think hearing this from him.
“You’re a courageous, beautiful young lady Andrea… a sister that I took for granted…”
Be still my healing heart…
“...a sister I should’ve made an effort to know, someone very special that I missed out on. I fucked up and I’m sorry… I’m sorry for the long term damage I caused you. I’m sorry for how my actions for years affected your wrestling career… and especially your previous run in SCW. I take full responsibility that you ever were that person. You became that because of me, because you didn’t know how to handle those shallow bitches you were dealing with back then. And for fuck’s sake Andrea, don’t let ANYONE treat you the way some of those people did the first time you were there.”
I did what I could to compose myself and get back to a level playing field emotionally.
“You’re a special person, Andrea… and if it’s coming from ME, you can’t deny it anymore…”
“Thank you…” I said softly, still absorbing all the shock that was going through me at the moment. “I forgive you…”
I sighed before I continued on.
“I can’t hold onto this pain anymore. I have to let it go and that’s what I am doing. I truly believe you mean what you said. But, I do need to make something very clear.”
“What’s that?”
“While I do forgive you, it’s going to take an enormous amount of time and so much of your efforts for us to come anywhere close to having any sort of relationship with each other…”
“I understand. I was expecting you to say that.”
“I appreciate the apology and your kindness and I will always be grateful that this very moment was the first time you’ve ever been nice to me. I don’t mind seeing you at family parties and even having small conversations with each other, but don’t expect me to just welcome you into my life with open arms… not after everything you’ve ever done to hurt me. You’re going to have to earn my trust if a relationship between us is even going to be on the table.”
“I understand. I’m not going to force you into anything. But I’ll be here for you if you ever decide you need me for anything…”
“I’ll keep that in mind.”
“Have a good night, Andrea.”
“Yeah… you too…”
I hung up at that point and I took a deep breath. My eyes were drying and I felt this huge sense of relief that after all the years of carrying such a horrible pain within me that I was finally able to let it go. I was numb for a bit, not knowing the effects of what just happened, but I knew in my heart that forgiving and letting go was the right thing to do. I was also feeling pretty relieved knowing that with the source of my pain that drove me to what I was prior in SCW the first time around being gone, that the risk of ever relapsing back to that person just became significantly reduced. Still, with Summer XXXtreme ahead and some people expressing skepticism about me, I knew I had a long way to go myself.
August 2, 2024
I was reliving a haunting memory being in a familiar cabin of the cruise. While a part of me still hated being in this particular cabin, just like with the forgiveness of my brother, I knew that revising a painful experience as far as SCW is concerned had to be done. The camera was on me and I was still remaining strong and confident as I began to express my thoughts.
“I remember this particular cabin all too well. Four years ago, I was in this cabin of the cruise feeling like I was an absolute failure… feeling like I was a complete fuck up to my family. I was broken and shattered and I literally just wanted to dock back on the United States mainland and go home. I’ll be the first to admit that after I left the cruise that particular day, I didn’t know if I wanted to come back to Sin City Wrestling at all. I had thoughts of leaving at that point. In hindsight, maybe I should’ve taken a hiatus for a few months and then maybe come back stronger. But when I was in this cabin after losing a triple threat match for the SCW Bombshells World Championship and being pinned by Evie Jordan again… I was seriously spiraling toward rock bottom. I still remember hating myself for losing to her again… I still remember feeling like she was right even though we all know the truth in that someone garbage and stupid like her was never right about me to begin with… I still remember imaging my father getting on my ass and telling me that I let him down. I don’t have the strongest or the brightest memories of the Summer XXXtreme Supercard, I will be blunt there. I remember being in this cabin hating myself for being a failure and truly believing that I was a flash in the pan and that there was no way out…
It was a disgusting, horrible experience… one that the next year at the same event didn’t erase. I mean, yeah I beat Samantha Marlowe in a majority falls match the next year, but I had already become who I was in my last run and I was deep in my own darkness. Even though I beat Samantha Marlowe the year after that horrible triple threat experience, it wasn’t exactly a shining moment for me. I won the match, bragged about it that night and the next day and just carried on with my miserable business and then shortly after that, I won the SCW Bombshells Internet Championship. By the time I beat Sam at this event three years ago, I just didn’t care anymore. I was actually dead set on quitting SCW THEN but I held off because I suddenly found myself in a tournament where I won that aforementioned championship. It’s been hard to forgive those that wronged me back in 2020, I will be the first to admit that. But the person that has been the hardest to forgive hasn’t been Evie or Diamond or whoever was rooting so hard for me to fail back then…
Hell, the hardest person to forgive isn’t even my own older brother…
The hardest person to forgive has been myself… for making the mistakes that I’ve made. You know, for so long I had been armchair quarterbacking this thing thinking “maybe if I did this different” or “maybe if I won THAT match” or “maybe if I didn’t say this that made so many people want to root against me”. I take my share of the blame for the way things were back then and I am done wishing that things would be different and I am especially done with giving anyone that ever wronged me back then any power over me. I made my mistakes and I lost the matches that I lost at the worst possible time and anyone can throw that in my face as much as they want but the fact of the matter is I still managed to dig myself out of the grave and I still managed to carve out an impressive career the first time around even though I was my own worst enemy. Right now, all I am thinking about is the future and how great I can prove to be in this company now that I am no longer in my own way. So yes, I forgive myself for screwing up, for losing the matches that I did, for allowing useless people, a particular one that thankfully doesn’t work here anymore by the way, to get the better of me.
I am done being a victim of my own past and I’m going to fight for my future and that’s what is going to put me over the top this Sunday because as coincidence would have it, I am going into ANOTHER triple threat match on the cruise. A title isn’t on the line, but for me, it might as well be because winning this triple threat match would absolutely ERASE the awful torture I put myself through in this very cabin and if you don’t think I want this match more than my two opponents combined, then you REALLY need to take into account the fact that I’m the only person of the three of us that has actually said a word. I don’t know what’s going on with you, Kallie Reznik. I thought coming out of the Blast from the Past tournament on the run that you had considering the circumstances with having a greenhorn partner and all would have motivated you to rise up the ranks and start challenging for championships and yet, all we’ve seen from you in Sin City Wrestling since that tournament ended is…
….what?
I can’t even think off of the top of my head any matches you’ve been in lately since that tournament even though there’s a chance you might have been but unfortunately, you have thrown that momentum from the tournament down the drain. I don’t know what happened to you. I don’t know if you’ve lost your fire or if you’re just content palling around with the people of Wolfslair and being in the background, but the way I see it, that’s not going to fly with me. If you don’t want to win this match, if you don’t even want to be a part of this match, then that’s your prerogative. I don’t hold a personal grudge against you or anything. You’ve never said a word to me. We’ve never met in the ring until Sunday and honestly? There’s not much more I CAN say about you considering that I barely even know you and that there’s nothing for me to forgive you for. I just HOPE you show up and bring your best… I want to see that fire that led you to the final four of this year’s mixed tag tournament but if your silence up to this point is an indicator of anything, I’m not exactly sure that I will see that fire from you…
Which is crazy considering you were very vocal during the tournament…
And speaking of “vocal”... lord knows four years ago, Kate Steele was one of my most vocal critics because… envy? I don’t know. We’ve never liked each other and I’m pretty sure that fact remains true today. The history between us, to a degree, is my fault too. I know I said some things to you in which I should’ve chosen my words more carefully and while it’s been four years and I obviously don’t remember word for word anything I said that got you angry at me to the point where you were rooting for me to fail, I do acknowledge even then I wasn’t everyone’s favorite person because my way with words rubbed people the wrong way.
But at the end of the day, Kate?
Two wrongs don’t make a right.
I remember how you were one of the people rooting for me to fail and running up the score when I did. You even went as far as writing me off calling me ‘old news’ which has aged horribly considering that I was away from this company for two years and STILL accomplished more since that time than you have. I had a memorable Internet Championship reign because I had an undefeated streak attached to it while the only thing your reign is largely remembered for these days is being the predecessor to Myra Rivers’s 350 day reign and that’s a truth I’m not going to apologize for bringing to light. You, Kate, are the last person that should be calling ANYONE old news and I’m not going to hold back on you because I really AM facing a hell of a mountain here… a mountain of regret stemming from old experiences and you were a part of that considering Blast from the Past that year and everything. You were shading me AFTER I lost the title because me losing the title wasn’t good enough for you to just shut the fuck up with your shade, right?
No, you had to run up the score the way so many did back then all because why? You were butthurt over a few little misplaced words that came out of my mouth during a phase of my career where I was learning and growing? That speaks to the kind of person that you were back then and that you still are now because seriously, I have seen some of the crap you’ve been posting on Twitter the last day or two about how people are coming down on you, making you public enemy number one and not giving you a chance and yeah, perhaps that context wasn’t Sin City Wrestling related in the slightest, but for fuck’s sake Kate, look back at your track record here and tell me why you should be treated any differently than how you’ve been with what you just described there when you just follow the same flow and the same pattern over and over and over again? That right there, that tweet that you posted with all the moaning that you did about that?
That’s exactly what I meant when I said that you’re the kind of person that doesn’t take responsibility for anything that you’ve said or done that has either rubbed people the wrong way or that has hurt someone. I’m going to be really open with you right now about four years ago when you ran up the score, throwing the shade that you did going into your title defense against Myra, throwing cheap shots without coming to me and asking me what I meant when I said a certain thing, saying I was old news before I rock bottomed in that battle royal and all of that…
It fucking HURT, Kate.
It did… because aside from whatever I said that offended you, I did NOTHING to you but you took the liberties that you did to run me down and pour dirt on the grave of my title reign just because you could. You were one of the faces of my downward spiral during the worst summer of my life and I don’t expect you to even apologize. I don’t expect you to acknowledge that the way you treated me back then was entirely fucked up. I know you never will and I’m at peace with that, but I guess in a way, beating you… and especially pinning you, would feel like I’d be reversing the damage and finally overcoming that summer quite a bit. Most people would say I’d be CRAZY to forgive you… or hell ANYONE… that played a role in that summer of hell from four years ago that actually made me want to LEAVE this company, if not QUIT WRESTLING altogether.
But you know what, I am going to.
I’m forgiving you for your role in that…
Because someone like you and someone like Evie or anyone else that decided to pile on me and write me off for dead and massively overreacted to ONE summer slump during a time when I was grieving my father doesn’t deserve, and will never have, any power over me or how I feel about myself as a wrestler and as a person. I forgive you with the realization that you’re never going to come around and apologize for how you treated me back then, but that’s okay. I don’t need your apology Kate, I just need to go into that ring on Sunday, beat you, and continue to prove that I am better than what I used to be. I don’t wish you any ill will and I’m not going to sit back and root for your failure during this latest trip down SCW Avenue for you… because I’m not stooping to that level…
I’m not going to treat you the way you treated me…
I’m just going to step in that ring against you, beat you, and step off this cruise with a MASSIVE weight from the past off of my shoulders…"
I narrowed my eyes for a bit and felt that determination in my heart. It wasn’t easy, but I shut off the camera without feeling any anger or hatred for Kate Steele at all given how she was one of those people that treated me awful back then.
For me personally? That’s one hell of a sign for my future…
“If anyone outside of your family knows what it was like when it came to you and your brother, it’s me…”
Chelsea LeClair says this with a sigh as we’re in my mother’s living room following the promo that I did against my two opponents.
“I saw him bully you and treat you like total crap and I don’t blame you a bit for feeling how you feel.”
“I appreciate your support, Chelsea…” I said with a sigh. “I just don’t know what Eddie was thinking trying to blindside me by getting us in the same room like that. How can he betray me like that?”
“He wasn’t betraying you, Andrea….” Chelsea said with a sigh of her own. “He was just trying to help you get past everything. I know Roddy was never someone that I would want to be around because he was gross and disgusting and I remember he made some… ‘advancements’ toward me before he got arrested and all… but sometimes prison changes people. I’m not taking his side, but it’s not good for you to be holding onto this pain much longer…”
I took a bit of a deep breath as I thought about what Chelsea was saying. A part of me knew she was right, but as I reflected on so much of what he put me through growing up, all I can focus on is how happy I was when he was sentenced to prison, how ecstatic I was that he was staying in there as long as he was in there, and how upset I was when he got released early for good behavior.
“But to forgive him for all of that? When he openly called me an accident? When he didn’t even want me to be born? When he had a hand in ruining every birthday that I can remember up until the age of 14 and how it only stopped because he ended up going to jail?”
“Andrea, please have a more open mind about this. I’m not saying you have to have any sort of personal connection with him in any way. Forgiving him doesn’t mean that such a relationship is going to happen. But, you truly deserve better than this. Don’t you think that if you were able to move past all the pain, then what wound up happening with your first run in Sin City Wrestling wouldn’t have happened at all?”
At this point, I was less angry and flustered and more confused than anything.
“How does Roddy and the way he treated me when we were children have anything to do with my first run in SCW?”
“Think about the things he was saying about you and how he was treating you when you messed up with something or made a mistake. Remember when you lost your mother’s debit card when she was getting you a dress for Homecoming that year and he made fun of you and called you a dunce and the ‘stupidest person ever’?”
“A gross exaggeration if there ever was one…”
“And how many times in the early part of your SCW career did you have to deal with Kate Steele and Evie Jordan making gross exaggerations if not outright lies about everything going on with you at the time for better or worse?”
“Touche…”
“Think about how he was always rooting against you to ever amount to anything from a talent competition in 8th grade to wanting to be a wrestler at all. How is it any different than those times during that hurtful part of your SCW career where you had other Bombshells rooting against you when you didn’t do a damn thing to them aside from beating them in the ring? How is it any different from some of those women celebrating your failures all those summers ago? It affected you the exact same way that it affected you whenever your brother would celebrate your misery ranging from falling off your bike to getting grounded by your parents for scoring a “D” on a quiz. It’s not any different, Andrea…”
Something really lit up inside of me when I was really beginning to compare how Roddy treated me growing up to how idiots and horrible women like Diamond Steele and Evie Jordan were treating me in the early part of my first run in Sin City Wrestling. This was of course, without mentioning how the likes of Krystal Wolfe and Roxi Johnson took cowardly cheap shots at me while I was gone and took no accountability or responsibility for their bullshit. My brain was flashing back to the misery I was feeling and in my heart, that pain was just beating through me. I never wanted my first run in SCW to go down the way it did, but I realized that my regrets were starting to fade a bit when an epiphany entered my brain.
“...that’s why I collapsed so badly the first time I was in SCW…”
Chelsea widens her eyes, not quite understanding what I meant at that point.
“I was triggered, Chelsea. I allowed those bitches I dealt with at the time to trigger me. I handled it all horribly because I never got a true resolution with Roddy. The way he bullied and tormented me isn’t that much different then the way I was treated around the time I was the SCW Bombshells World Champion. The only reason why that bullying stopped was because he went to prison and I never overcame all that trauma directly. So… when I was dealing with similar crap from the likes of Evie and Kate…”
I sighed, expressing some regret and seeing the bigger picture of why I fell as hard as I did.
“I had no way to cope with it or face it because I never did with Roddy. All I did was just cower in a corner and cry with him because I felt powerless… just like I felt powerless when everything around me in Sin City Wrestling was collapsing. When I became what I became… it wasn’t because I wanted to be that person, it was because I felt like I had no other way out. When you had the likes of Keira Fisher celebrate my downfall after a battle royal at one point… I just didn’t know what else to do…
Tears of regret were flowing down my face.
“How the hell could I, when I never learned how to overcome the abuse I endured from my own brother?”
Chelsea gives me a huge embrace and wipes the tears away doing everything that she can to help me push through this.
“That’s why forgiving him is the best thing for you to do, Andrea. I know it’s hard and I know it feels like you are excusing his abuse toward you, but trust me, that’s the last thing that you’re doing. You deserve better than to experience this pain on a repeated basis. You deserve to have peace and you deserve to have a better time in Sin City Wrestling than the first time around. I worry that if you can’t move past the pain from Roddy that you’re going to eventually fall back into what you were before and nobody wants that and you, especially, don’t want that.”
“I completely agree on all of that, Chelsea. But I don’t know if I’m ready…”
“Girl, look at how you’ve improved and been a hell of a wrestler and an even better champion in between your SCW stints and tell me again that you’re not ready to let it go and move forward…”
Putting it that way, I could definitely smile knowing that she was right and that despite everything I’ve ever been through, I’ve somehow been able to be better and stronger as a wrestler and a person with time.
“There’s no way I am going to deny that truth…” I admitted with a sigh of relief. “You’re right. I’ll… find a way to get ahold of him and…”
Just the thought of contacting Roddy made me cringe a bit but I knew it had to be done.
“...we’ll go from there…”
I took a deep breath as I pulled out my phone and texted Eddie asking if he had Roddy’s number knowing more than likely that would be the case. There was silence for a bit before my phone went off and I saw that Eddie responded back to me with his number. My nerves got jumpy knowing I was a phone call away from finally putting a painful past behind me for good.
August 1, 2024
On this night, I was on the deck of the cruise. I was thankfully alone as that’s exactly what I wanted to be when what I was about to do were to take place. I dialed Roddy’s number, closed my eyes, said a bit of a prayer in my mind hoping that this didn’t blow up in my face, and I pressed “SEND” to officially make the call. I waited and heard a few dial tones before I heard his voice.
“Yeah? Who is this?”
“...hey….” I said nervously. I heard silence on the other end and those few, tense moments were really getting to me.
“Andrea?” he asked, sounding a bit surprised.
“Yeah… it’s me… I asked Eddie for your number.”
“I see… so… what’s happening here?”
“You hated me when we were growing up and on the few times I even bothered visiting you in prison to tell you how wrong you were about me, you continued to root for my failure and you continued to insist that if you were never arrested, you’d be having my success and not me. You’ve always been a horrible brother up to the last prison visit which was early 2018. But now, you’re out of prison and you want to make things right with me? Why should I believe that? Tell me, WHY?!?!??!”
I could hear Roddy sighing on the other end.
“People change…”
“And suddenly because you’re out of prison, you’ve changed?”
“You remember when I got my former girlfriend pregnant right? Just before I got arrested?”
“Yeah…”
“Between your last prison visit and my release, I met that child… my daughter. As it turns out, she almost didn’t make it when she was born… epilepsy. She had some developmental struggles as her mother detailed to me and when I met her and had a conversation with her for the first time, it was like… none of it happened. She overcame that. She leads a normal life. She’s just like any other teenage girl…someone that has a bright future ahead of her. I was a sexist douchebag when we were growing up and I thought women had a ‘certain role’. But seeing how strong my own daughter is… it changed me, Andrea. I realized how wrong I was about women… how wrong I was about you…”
I was a bit surprised hearing this from him, considering the years of abuse including “women belong in the kitchen” from him.
“...but I heard about, and when I got a chance, saw how you fell apart after Dad passed away and what you became in Sin City Wrestling when you were there the time before…”
My eyes widened a bit, definitely intrigued.
“You know what I felt when I saw you turn into that?”
“Happy…” I said with a scoff. “...you were overjoyed to see me suffer. You always were.”
“Andrea, that’s where you’re wrong… and if you don’t believe me, Eddie and Mom can vouch for this. I wasn’t happy to see you like that. In fact, I felt guilty… guilty to the point of tears, Andrea… because deep down in my gut, I couldn’t help but feel like that was my fault… that I was the reason why you became what you became. I broke you down so badly that when Dad died and you were dealing with the same treatment from a couple of your peers in SCW that I gave you when we were growing up, you collapsed… and I feel horrible about it to this day. From the bottom of my heart, I am truly sorry for all of the pain that I caused you and for everything I’ve done to you. ‘Young and stupid’ is nowhere near an excuse and I’m going to be a man and own up to that. I was extremely, incredibly wrong about you and you have had a much better wrestling career than I would’ve. I was wrong in ever telling you that you only ever were successful because I was incarcerated. Knowing you, you still would’ve found your way into the business even if Dad refused to train you.”
The tears were filling up my eyes again as I didn’t know what to think hearing this from him.
“You’re a courageous, beautiful young lady Andrea… a sister that I took for granted…”
Be still my healing heart…
“...a sister I should’ve made an effort to know, someone very special that I missed out on. I fucked up and I’m sorry… I’m sorry for the long term damage I caused you. I’m sorry for how my actions for years affected your wrestling career… and especially your previous run in SCW. I take full responsibility that you ever were that person. You became that because of me, because you didn’t know how to handle those shallow bitches you were dealing with back then. And for fuck’s sake Andrea, don’t let ANYONE treat you the way some of those people did the first time you were there.”
I did what I could to compose myself and get back to a level playing field emotionally.
“You’re a special person, Andrea… and if it’s coming from ME, you can’t deny it anymore…”
“Thank you…” I said softly, still absorbing all the shock that was going through me at the moment. “I forgive you…”
I sighed before I continued on.
“I can’t hold onto this pain anymore. I have to let it go and that’s what I am doing. I truly believe you mean what you said. But, I do need to make something very clear.”
“What’s that?”
“While I do forgive you, it’s going to take an enormous amount of time and so much of your efforts for us to come anywhere close to having any sort of relationship with each other…”
“I understand. I was expecting you to say that.”
“I appreciate the apology and your kindness and I will always be grateful that this very moment was the first time you’ve ever been nice to me. I don’t mind seeing you at family parties and even having small conversations with each other, but don’t expect me to just welcome you into my life with open arms… not after everything you’ve ever done to hurt me. You’re going to have to earn my trust if a relationship between us is even going to be on the table.”
“I understand. I’m not going to force you into anything. But I’ll be here for you if you ever decide you need me for anything…”
“I’ll keep that in mind.”
“Have a good night, Andrea.”
“Yeah… you too…”
I hung up at that point and I took a deep breath. My eyes were drying and I felt this huge sense of relief that after all the years of carrying such a horrible pain within me that I was finally able to let it go. I was numb for a bit, not knowing the effects of what just happened, but I knew in my heart that forgiving and letting go was the right thing to do. I was also feeling pretty relieved knowing that with the source of my pain that drove me to what I was prior in SCW the first time around being gone, that the risk of ever relapsing back to that person just became significantly reduced. Still, with Summer XXXtreme ahead and some people expressing skepticism about me, I knew I had a long way to go myself.
August 2, 2024
I was reliving a haunting memory being in a familiar cabin of the cruise. While a part of me still hated being in this particular cabin, just like with the forgiveness of my brother, I knew that revising a painful experience as far as SCW is concerned had to be done. The camera was on me and I was still remaining strong and confident as I began to express my thoughts.
“I remember this particular cabin all too well. Four years ago, I was in this cabin of the cruise feeling like I was an absolute failure… feeling like I was a complete fuck up to my family. I was broken and shattered and I literally just wanted to dock back on the United States mainland and go home. I’ll be the first to admit that after I left the cruise that particular day, I didn’t know if I wanted to come back to Sin City Wrestling at all. I had thoughts of leaving at that point. In hindsight, maybe I should’ve taken a hiatus for a few months and then maybe come back stronger. But when I was in this cabin after losing a triple threat match for the SCW Bombshells World Championship and being pinned by Evie Jordan again… I was seriously spiraling toward rock bottom. I still remember hating myself for losing to her again… I still remember feeling like she was right even though we all know the truth in that someone garbage and stupid like her was never right about me to begin with… I still remember imaging my father getting on my ass and telling me that I let him down. I don’t have the strongest or the brightest memories of the Summer XXXtreme Supercard, I will be blunt there. I remember being in this cabin hating myself for being a failure and truly believing that I was a flash in the pan and that there was no way out…
It was a disgusting, horrible experience… one that the next year at the same event didn’t erase. I mean, yeah I beat Samantha Marlowe in a majority falls match the next year, but I had already become who I was in my last run and I was deep in my own darkness. Even though I beat Samantha Marlowe the year after that horrible triple threat experience, it wasn’t exactly a shining moment for me. I won the match, bragged about it that night and the next day and just carried on with my miserable business and then shortly after that, I won the SCW Bombshells Internet Championship. By the time I beat Sam at this event three years ago, I just didn’t care anymore. I was actually dead set on quitting SCW THEN but I held off because I suddenly found myself in a tournament where I won that aforementioned championship. It’s been hard to forgive those that wronged me back in 2020, I will be the first to admit that. But the person that has been the hardest to forgive hasn’t been Evie or Diamond or whoever was rooting so hard for me to fail back then…
Hell, the hardest person to forgive isn’t even my own older brother…
The hardest person to forgive has been myself… for making the mistakes that I’ve made. You know, for so long I had been armchair quarterbacking this thing thinking “maybe if I did this different” or “maybe if I won THAT match” or “maybe if I didn’t say this that made so many people want to root against me”. I take my share of the blame for the way things were back then and I am done wishing that things would be different and I am especially done with giving anyone that ever wronged me back then any power over me. I made my mistakes and I lost the matches that I lost at the worst possible time and anyone can throw that in my face as much as they want but the fact of the matter is I still managed to dig myself out of the grave and I still managed to carve out an impressive career the first time around even though I was my own worst enemy. Right now, all I am thinking about is the future and how great I can prove to be in this company now that I am no longer in my own way. So yes, I forgive myself for screwing up, for losing the matches that I did, for allowing useless people, a particular one that thankfully doesn’t work here anymore by the way, to get the better of me.
I am done being a victim of my own past and I’m going to fight for my future and that’s what is going to put me over the top this Sunday because as coincidence would have it, I am going into ANOTHER triple threat match on the cruise. A title isn’t on the line, but for me, it might as well be because winning this triple threat match would absolutely ERASE the awful torture I put myself through in this very cabin and if you don’t think I want this match more than my two opponents combined, then you REALLY need to take into account the fact that I’m the only person of the three of us that has actually said a word. I don’t know what’s going on with you, Kallie Reznik. I thought coming out of the Blast from the Past tournament on the run that you had considering the circumstances with having a greenhorn partner and all would have motivated you to rise up the ranks and start challenging for championships and yet, all we’ve seen from you in Sin City Wrestling since that tournament ended is…
….what?
I can’t even think off of the top of my head any matches you’ve been in lately since that tournament even though there’s a chance you might have been but unfortunately, you have thrown that momentum from the tournament down the drain. I don’t know what happened to you. I don’t know if you’ve lost your fire or if you’re just content palling around with the people of Wolfslair and being in the background, but the way I see it, that’s not going to fly with me. If you don’t want to win this match, if you don’t even want to be a part of this match, then that’s your prerogative. I don’t hold a personal grudge against you or anything. You’ve never said a word to me. We’ve never met in the ring until Sunday and honestly? There’s not much more I CAN say about you considering that I barely even know you and that there’s nothing for me to forgive you for. I just HOPE you show up and bring your best… I want to see that fire that led you to the final four of this year’s mixed tag tournament but if your silence up to this point is an indicator of anything, I’m not exactly sure that I will see that fire from you…
Which is crazy considering you were very vocal during the tournament…
And speaking of “vocal”... lord knows four years ago, Kate Steele was one of my most vocal critics because… envy? I don’t know. We’ve never liked each other and I’m pretty sure that fact remains true today. The history between us, to a degree, is my fault too. I know I said some things to you in which I should’ve chosen my words more carefully and while it’s been four years and I obviously don’t remember word for word anything I said that got you angry at me to the point where you were rooting for me to fail, I do acknowledge even then I wasn’t everyone’s favorite person because my way with words rubbed people the wrong way.
But at the end of the day, Kate?
Two wrongs don’t make a right.
I remember how you were one of the people rooting for me to fail and running up the score when I did. You even went as far as writing me off calling me ‘old news’ which has aged horribly considering that I was away from this company for two years and STILL accomplished more since that time than you have. I had a memorable Internet Championship reign because I had an undefeated streak attached to it while the only thing your reign is largely remembered for these days is being the predecessor to Myra Rivers’s 350 day reign and that’s a truth I’m not going to apologize for bringing to light. You, Kate, are the last person that should be calling ANYONE old news and I’m not going to hold back on you because I really AM facing a hell of a mountain here… a mountain of regret stemming from old experiences and you were a part of that considering Blast from the Past that year and everything. You were shading me AFTER I lost the title because me losing the title wasn’t good enough for you to just shut the fuck up with your shade, right?
No, you had to run up the score the way so many did back then all because why? You were butthurt over a few little misplaced words that came out of my mouth during a phase of my career where I was learning and growing? That speaks to the kind of person that you were back then and that you still are now because seriously, I have seen some of the crap you’ve been posting on Twitter the last day or two about how people are coming down on you, making you public enemy number one and not giving you a chance and yeah, perhaps that context wasn’t Sin City Wrestling related in the slightest, but for fuck’s sake Kate, look back at your track record here and tell me why you should be treated any differently than how you’ve been with what you just described there when you just follow the same flow and the same pattern over and over and over again? That right there, that tweet that you posted with all the moaning that you did about that?
That’s exactly what I meant when I said that you’re the kind of person that doesn’t take responsibility for anything that you’ve said or done that has either rubbed people the wrong way or that has hurt someone. I’m going to be really open with you right now about four years ago when you ran up the score, throwing the shade that you did going into your title defense against Myra, throwing cheap shots without coming to me and asking me what I meant when I said a certain thing, saying I was old news before I rock bottomed in that battle royal and all of that…
It fucking HURT, Kate.
It did… because aside from whatever I said that offended you, I did NOTHING to you but you took the liberties that you did to run me down and pour dirt on the grave of my title reign just because you could. You were one of the faces of my downward spiral during the worst summer of my life and I don’t expect you to even apologize. I don’t expect you to acknowledge that the way you treated me back then was entirely fucked up. I know you never will and I’m at peace with that, but I guess in a way, beating you… and especially pinning you, would feel like I’d be reversing the damage and finally overcoming that summer quite a bit. Most people would say I’d be CRAZY to forgive you… or hell ANYONE… that played a role in that summer of hell from four years ago that actually made me want to LEAVE this company, if not QUIT WRESTLING altogether.
But you know what, I am going to.
I’m forgiving you for your role in that…
Because someone like you and someone like Evie or anyone else that decided to pile on me and write me off for dead and massively overreacted to ONE summer slump during a time when I was grieving my father doesn’t deserve, and will never have, any power over me or how I feel about myself as a wrestler and as a person. I forgive you with the realization that you’re never going to come around and apologize for how you treated me back then, but that’s okay. I don’t need your apology Kate, I just need to go into that ring on Sunday, beat you, and continue to prove that I am better than what I used to be. I don’t wish you any ill will and I’m not going to sit back and root for your failure during this latest trip down SCW Avenue for you… because I’m not stooping to that level…
I’m not going to treat you the way you treated me…
I’m just going to step in that ring against you, beat you, and step off this cruise with a MASSIVE weight from the past off of my shoulders…"
I narrowed my eyes for a bit and felt that determination in my heart. It wasn’t easy, but I shut off the camera without feeling any anger or hatred for Kate Steele at all given how she was one of those people that treated me awful back then.
For me personally? That’s one hell of a sign for my future…